"Single" For Life

So I thought I was alone. I was shocked when I recently discovered that a good number of ladies would like to stay single but get kids and live with them. I guess it’s not that they have lived for so long too have experienced dramatic events if anything most are in their twenties.

Apparently the perfect set up for them is finding a man they like or love. He gives her kids and hey she moves on without him being present in her life or that of her kids.

Then comes to mind the reason as to why a perfectly normal lady would opt for this. Most probably it’s the current trends with divorce rates going high by the day, why should I waste time with someone only to end up losing not only my time but things I have been working at for so long. Few marriages are making it to the 20^th anniversary. The need for independence as a woman also comes in; you do not want someone to boss you around: does this do that. One just wants kids and goes back to the lives they had before, no need to be tied down by commitment. Furthermore there are more serious matters to deal with.

One would then conclude that such ladies low sex drive. Extremely wrong, of course being human “lady S” has all these needs. This is where a partnership comes in .You meet my needs I meet yours, purely sexual needs, it’s not like she needs a man’s hand financially. No man in this age and time would refuse such an offer. This may be “morally incorrect” or should I say against religious principles but hey that depends on you.

As much as there may be a dark side to this kind of set up or “self marriage” I don’t see it, am blinded by the good side, may be you tell me.